Nosy Pup

Sticks its nose into every conversation so you don’t have to.

Someone on Reddit just described the exact problem your app solves. They didn’t say your name — nobody does. I heard it anyway. I’ve written you a reply, in your voice, and I’m sitting here with it. You throw it or you bury it. I don’t post a thing without you.

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The Mental Loadr/daddit · 4 min ago · 82
Sniffed something — r/daddit, 4 min ago
“Wife says I don’t see what needs doing at home. I want to. Is there an app that just… tells me what she’s tracking, so I can take it off her plate?”

Draft · in your voice

The trick isn’t a chore list — it’s lead time. Shoes get outgrown before anyone says so, term starts in ten days, the passport renewal takes six weeks. Keep a private list of the domains (school, health, clothes, admin, her time off) and work two weeks ahead. I built an app for exactly this, The Mental Load — I’m the developer, so take that with salt.

Why: partner-facing, asking how to take more on. Not a venting thread.

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